I love meeting new people and getting to know them. I'm hoping for an opportunity to do that here, in a more genuine way than is available to me in my public life.
I would describe myself as a bisexual orally-fixated submissive who is in a nearly perfect vanilla marriage with a man that I love... but that really only tells part of the story.
The focus of my personal kink is power exchange. For years I have worked to develop mechanisms of control over myself and my environment as a reaction to personal issues and trauma. I spend a lot of my day making critical judgement calls and decisions that go against my purest instincts. When possible, my heart wants to give that control over to someone else. My submission comes from both a strong desire to please and a craving for powerlessness.
I have been incredibly lucky and after only a short period of exploration and making friends, connected with an amazing person. He helps me explore a side of myself that I am trying to develop and He lets me make him happy every day. He respects my need to nurture my home life and career and I cannot imagine a better balance.
That said, I am always open to meeting new friends and interesting people and I am curious about trying public play outside of a relationship, though it is not a priority at this time.