Congratulations on your engagement and, especially, engagement to a man who has a rich and engaged understanding of who you are. We males -- even well-educated, professionally successful, relationally dominant ones -- are often appallingly slow in picking up clues in our relationships. But if you're willing to learn to guide from below and he lovingly embraces the gift of the power you give him, you'll have a great adventure together. "Lost in Wonder." Beautiful image. Often used in various Christian contexts. What's it mean to you, I wonder. In any case, welcome!