Going to my First Munch!!
I think i round up enough courage talking with a member of the library last night about, munches and being afraid and going to one and so fouth. I'm so nervous, so excited and my tummy is already doing flips and i havent even registered for the munch yet.
In New Jersey Knot4everyone gives them every Thursdays, they just added one for Tuesdays( the one im going to since im off work) and Wednesday, in late evenings..
Which will be good for me since i work over night and get home rest and be rested for the munch, go out and hopefully meet some like minded indivduals, hopefully meet some really sweet, kind ppl...
im so nervous, im almost shaking writing this and as i said i havent even registered for the munch yet, and its not for a wk or two...but hopefully i will be fine LOl..
wish me luck and i will update when it gets closer to the date and after ive gone to the munch.
Ok...the munch is next tuesday and im debating on what to wear....im going to wear something causal and comfortable. and im sooooooo nervous Lol.
Really enjoyed my first Munch!
Well im back from my first munch and i had a wonderful time. Everyone was lovely, they welcome me with warm smiles and well wishes. Everyone there was nice, some more talkative then others but thats how it usually is when u are part of a group and a new person comes in. Lol..
at first i kinda felt out of place because i was the youngest person there but after awhile the ice broke and i started to feel like my zesty self and it started to get better...almost to the point i didnt want to leave LOL..
I got to meet the WebMistress,HeadMistress for the munches In NJ for that group is Tina Rock, she was very nice, she asked me a few questions and i answered them as honest as i knew how or could lol...she was alittle intimdating but she had a very strong presence.
The Coordinator for that Elmwood Park Munch was Lady Jenn and she was very lovely, she talked to me most of the night, after she finished with her dinner.. and she asked me very good questions...found out that her mother is also into the lifestyle and got her into it, when she needed some help looking for munches on the computer. So LadyJenn researched and found somethings that she was interested in and now she attends the munches, and felt at home ever since.
I didnt feel over dress, or under dressed...everyone there was causal, and comfortable and i kinda made a big deal out of nothing LOL. I wore a floral halter top with trouser jeans and no panties *blushes*...
i felt comfortable and relax the whole time, i kinda didnt want to leave LOL..i didnt have anything else to do so i wanted to stay. thats how comfortable i was LOL
I did exchange emails with this one Dominant, but it was just emails and nothing was intended to happen...just for friendship purpose..
i didnt go with the intent on finding anyone, if that happens later on thats good, if it doesnt "oh fuck well" ...i just want to enjoy myself, enjoy the ppl in the lifestyle and have a learn as much as i can about myself and others, while being in a safe enviroment!
im going to RSVP for the one in Bridgewater on Thursday, from what i hear there's alot more ppl for that one, and i cant wait to go and just get to know alot more ppl in the lifestyle.
