How did you meet your real-life Master?

How do you meet Doms in real life?

(Not looking for online)

Go to a munch.

I met my Master online in a chat room in Yahoo. W/we chatted online for a year before W/we met IRL. W/we have been physically together for 9 years now and W/we will have been married for 8 years in October. I know quite a number of couples who met online.

By chance in a friend's apartment.

We walked into an audition together and couldn't stop staring. We worked out the D/s part of our relationship as we went along, it came from a very natural place for us as neither of us were really familiar with the online world of BDSM or the Lifestyle community at that point. Sometimes random works I guess... ;)

My kitten and I met online via Alt.com with the both of us having the intent of finding someone for in-the-flesh activity (not online).

We met on collarme.com and because of the 3 hour distance between us we decided to just be online friends...that quickly turned into more *smiles*

now if we could just find a cheap source of gas life would be even better LOL

On a birthday party with friends. *laughs*

answered this a few weeks ago in a different thread lol, but here is an edited exsert from that post:


my owner and his wife spotted me > the minute they first saw me as a possible slave, i didnt even know they were watching me eaither, i was painting 40k figures in a gaming store at the time,

latter that nite in a club downtown i finally saw them, he had her on a leash with her hands cuffed behind her back (which wasnt completely out of place as the club was a goth-industrial/rave bar), i was so intrigued i couldnt take my eyes off them, yet whenever they looked my way i would avert my eyes and allmost blush,

later in the evening i ran into her in the bathroom, she needed assistance to get into one of the stalls, and i helped her out, next thing i knew i was sitting at thier booth having a great time, and then after a couple hours it was on to thier house and well the rest was history....weg

my owner says it is a combination of things , ranging from body posture to eye contact and facial expression, to what we wear etc, he says once he talked to me for a few minutes he knew for sure i was slave material even if i didnt know it myself

I met mine at a gothic club. I was standing in the way of the bathrooms, and I moved for him to get through. When he came out he just grabbed my hand and led me to an area where we could sit down. I was quite intoxicated, but remembered him the next morning and we texted each other back and forth for a week before coming together.

I actually met Master on collarme. We talked a few times then met and the rest is history. In the past I have met people at munches, parties, dungeons as well as online. Not one venue seemed to produce more or less results. Just have to be viligint and have patience.

I met him when I was 14.
we went to school together and I wore this slave collar everyday at school.
he picked up that I was a sub and one day he walked over to me and just started ordering me around. after that he took me to his house and told me he wanted to be my master I told him yes and the he took my virginityXDDDDDDD
to this day he still owns me 5 years now.

I met mine on an online forum- we talked online for 4 months and then we met.

On another forum he sent a very mature interesting note and we started talking in yahoo. About 3 weeks. Then met :)

i met Master in junior high and we started out as best friends. He helped me through the most dificult times of my life. He was there for me when my dad died, when i was going through the situation with my mom, when i started falling in with the wrong guys. It didn't matter what i did, He never once judged me, and He was always there for me. Then in sophomore year W/we started dating, just like everyone expected us to. Both of U/us really wanted more than a vanilla relationship, but wasn't sure how to bring it up to the other. i certainly didn't want my best friend in the world/lover to think i was some kind of freak, and i guess He didn't either. Then one day i was giving Him head when He got a little rough and started pulling me by the hair. Then afterwards, He started apologizing profusely saying He didn't know what had gotten into Him and i just grinned. From then on, W/we slowly started experimenting with BDSM until W/we got to where W/we are today.

I was introduced to my Mistress through a mutual friend, though in a vanilla way. We started dating and ended up living together. At some point, the relationship slid into the current status--neither of us is sure who had that idea first.

okay not to sound insane but i met him in an online text based fantasy role play game. Our characters got together ingame ( with the help of a mutual friend) and the ingame role playing relationship went toward a Master/slave thing. and through talking discovered this was an intrest of both of ours RL. and things kind a took off from there.

i met mine on here, a year ago next month. We talked online and on the phone for about two months, then he came thru where i live, and we met for coffee. a month later i took the train 6 hours to his house, where i spent a most wonderful weekend. we have been together ever since. i plan on moving there some time in the near future. :)

Met here in the chatroom. And the rest, as they say, is history.

I met him because he is a part of another group I hang out with. I was not even into bondage or D/s at the time and I knew I wanted him to dominate me. :)