Let us get aquaintd

Like so many postings I have seen I am new to this. Thought about the Bondage scene for a long time, but have not explored it to any great extent. Some short duration professional exploration. Was married for 50 years( yeh, that makes me a bit older than many) with a very vanella wife-great person but I kept my many fantasies in the closet so to speak. so you won't consider age a major factor -I am very active 0 sailing, boating, biking, snorkling and so on. I am most interested in talking to/finding a dominate lady. I have had fantasies of being restained, punished, made to do things that aren't normal to my every day activity. I have thought of being bound and gagged,perhaps with panties or similar intiment item or even a ring gag. Seems there are lots of erotic things that could lead to. I, quite frankly, would like to be made to do things -- perhaps fondle a male participant or other things. Guess I really don't fully know what I would like to encounter nor how far I actually would want to go. Fantasies are wonderful thinjgs that can run from oral to anal not exactly A to Z but you get my point. OK, Ive said a lot, and it surprises me that I have been this outspoken -- like I said I am coming out of a vanella environment. AM I IN THE RIGHT PLACE???