New dom, Wife and I had our first experience last night, Looking for advice.
So who would have thought giving a little nudge to a little light reading would lead me here. So yes my wife decided she would check out the book the fifty shades of grey. Good, bad or indifferent I have found a new side of my wife.
About me: I am a very strong sexual person but I feel I have been constrained by todays dogma of romance. I guess you can say I suffered from "Knight in shining armor" complex. Vanilla can be nice...but to have nothing but it all your life, well lets just same I am glad my wife decided she wanted to add some extra flavor to our sex life. Ironically Dom appealed to her but as we got into play her inner sub took over quickly.
I threw her onto the bed and told her to remove her clothes. I told her she was not allowed to speak and when she did she would be punished for it. I bound her hands with a tie of mine and had her lay on her stomach. As my hands moved down her back, down the outside of her legs and gently back up her inner thighs feeling the moistness of her soft lips. I asked her are you enjoying this, with her answer of yes i slapped her ass punishing her for speaking. After an hour and a half of amazing sex most likely the best sex of our 3 year of relationship. Our night included spanking tieing up and good rough sex.
I didn't want to go to big the first night out but i could tell my wife can and would like to handle more. So I am looking for advice. I am new to BDSM but not new to a sexual nature, ie porn, movies, sex stores. I am looking for more adventures and Ideas to take us to new heights of pleasure.
So yes please any ideas on where a novice goes from here.
