guess i could join the rant on this issue- but i am only going to say one thing. if you feel like something is innapropriate, then it is. if you feel like you are his, then you are. no ring or collar or decalaration of love is going to make that or break that commitment. i feel like you are doing the right thing by being dedicated to this guy, if you feel so strongly (and that is said without knowing any other factors) VoodoMan sounds like a lucky man. the couple is way overstepping. get away from them.