Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Hi Julie, welcome to the forum. May I suggest you place an ad in the personals, after first reading this thread. http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1375

May I also suggest you have a good look around, make a few posts & introduce yourself to us.

I personally don't place much emphasis on personal ads, if I was looking to meet someone I'd get to know them gradually as a person before considering starting a D/s relationship.

Your age & weight mean nothing, what matters is you as a person. How serious you are about this, whether you're a born sub, etc. etc.

All Doms are different & look for different things. Unfortunately from what I hear there's a shortage of good ones available- but you only need one!

Good luck in your search, take your time & don't settle for less than you deserve. This should never be rushed.

Tojo
Julie I cannot stress to you how right this posting is. Age is no limit in anywalk of life and that includes here. Settle in, read the forums, ask questions, PM those you think could give you good advice but above all take it slow and steady.

Remember there are a lot of people here willing to help.

Good luck hope we have the pleasure of your company for a long time to come.