Errr...hello?

[cariad]

Hello Bound to be and to our home.

As has already been said, take your time and enjoy. Don't be in a hurry to put a label on yourself, and very few of us are 100% pure anything. Oh - and don't worry about joining the scene, it is not compulsory! Some people enjoy it, some don't - if you do then join it, if you don't - well then leave it well alone.

It really is all about finding out what is right for you - there are no rules, except obviously respect for other people.

I hope you enjoy reading the threads and the stories and as minxy said - no question is too daft to ask.

You might wish to post in personals, I don't know who successful it is, although do know that most replies are made in private massages or emails, so do not take no posted replies as a bad sign. However if you really wish to meet someone here you need to become active in the threads, let us get to know you - a little like going to a party, as someone said recently.

Look forward to seeing around here and in chat.

cariad

[Bound to be]

Thanks for all the advice guys, been plodding on in the chat room for a bit, making a twit of myself but seeming to be getting the hang of it. it's like getting on a roundabout, you have to seize the opprtunity as it passes or your stuck watching from the outside till another comes around. I think i'll try putting a personel on, see what hapens. Couldn't hurt i suppose.(unless i get lucky) lol

[cariad]

Thanks for all the advice guys, been plodding on in the chat room for a bit, making a twit of myself but seeming to be getting the hang of it. it's like getting on a roundabout, you have to seize the opprtunity as it passes or your stuck watching from the outside till another comes around. I think i'll try putting a personel on, see what hapens. Couldn't hurt i suppose.(unless i get lucky) lol

You have to invest time in the chatroom to get much out of it. But once you get to know a handful of people you will suddenly start to feel at home there and the whole thing just escalates. There are a lot of regulars there, and generally everyone is very friendly and supportive. Just sometimes you might go in and everyone appears to be asleep. It could be that they are actually asleep, or they are whispering behind the scenes, but either way, feel free to borrow my stick and prod them....

cariad

[Tojo]

most replies are made in private massages or emails

Oh stop it cari, you're killing me. Private massages indeed...

A great way to meet people is just to say hi in a PM- nicely & politely. If you start by being friends, who knows where it might lead?



Tojo