i love what you have written here Church, but i have to say i agree with the others - in something as serious as this, that will affect the rest of your lives together, i think that a good, long conversation as equals is in order. Perhaps there are other issues which have not come up yet, that are hindering the decision.

i would, however, suggest that you do play out your scenario with another question - something fun like where do you want to go for supper tonite? you have a fabulous imagination with your scenario there and if she is really that indecisive, then this will work just the same...imagine taking it further and carrying on with some stuff in the restaurant of her choice!

yummy!