Thanks everyone. I'm glad I followed my gut feeling and inquired about it. The orginal idea wasn't to get her to 'do what I want' or 'say what I want' but to have her make decisions and curb her indecisiveness, though it was revelent to some big stuff.

Good information and advice!

As for using this scenerio still, definatly a must. I need to figure out how to use it by tomarrow or saturday! I'm very surprised I thought of this and am finding that I am having coming up with the running activity, as for questioning, such as going out to eat as mentioned is a good idea, but won't work too well since we do not live together. Anyone ahve other suggestions?