vistana as others have said hot wax isn't for everyone. I have found the taper candles to be to intense and hurt like hell and take a long time to drip onto your body for pleasure. I tried a dark cherry glass jar candle the last time I did wax play. The wax was warm and felt so good and made me so wet. It also covered my breasts fairly fast compared to the taper candle. I enjoyed it on my inner thighs as well as my pubic area. Maybe you could try some of the suggestions and find you enjoy it. Then again maybe it just isn't for you.