not the ass-talking bit...

It is really interesting to see the different views of everyone, it just goes to show that 'O' is indeed an important piece of work that has stood the test of time well.
Everyone has their boundaries, there is no right or wrong, and not fully submitting is not a bad thing, its got to be about whatever makes you happy.
i would not see being given to another as a violation of my trust, this is because my Master knows that i am comfortable with this, and that my need to please Him is abolute, and, although surprises are nice, niether of us would involve anyone else without having discussed it first.

nikki