i have an online success story...

my vanilla husband and i were going through a divorce and i'd met a dominant man here online. it was at a different site, but that doesn't matter. the point is, we spent months and months getting to know each other, feeling out our likes and dislikes, talking on the phone for hours at a time, until we finally met and moved in together.

now most people wouldn't consider this relationship a success because it didn't end well at all. but to me it was a success because in the months we were together, it helped me realize that i was truly a submissive and it was something i needed in my life. i also gained tons of experience from the guy and even though things ended on a sour note, i'll never regret the decisions that were made that resulted in us hooking up in the first place. it was definitely a success in that it helped me learn a lot about myself and my needs.

on a happier note...ex-husband and i got back together after it was all said and done and are pretty darn happy!