Quote Originally Posted by phantasy_seeker
Mucho thanks for your responses, guys.

Didn't those of you who've had to move cross-country have your niggling doubts though? Giving up your career, friends etc to be with him must've been hard, to say the least. How did you handle that?

It's been really encouraging, though, to hear that so many have made the leap from OL to RT and it succeeded.

Honestly, I didn't really have any doubts about it. I knew it was what I wanted to do and was the best decision for my ultimate happiness. I wasn't employed so I didn't have to leave a job. Yeah I was a little sad to leave my family, but it's not like I won't ever see them again.

I guess the hardest part in that respect is just getting used to not seeing my mom and brother every day, every week, or even every month. But it's well worth it in my opinion.