hi

My partner (and my sub) and I met online. I sent her an email to a story she wrote, for some reason she replied. At the time she was married to a man who would frequently hit her and treat her like a piece of rubbish.

We started to play dominant games almost straight away, but with no real intention of being together. She has always said that this gave her confidence to realise she was worth a lot more than her then husband gave her credit for.

Eventually she left him, moved in with her parents, then we started to talk about maybe getting together. One thing let to another and she moved in with me just over 5 years ago.

We're now really happy, as are her kids from her marriage and things are all going well. Her relationship with her husband is very distance, with the kids being the only reason she needs to talk to him.

I was a struggle but if its worth doing then it will happen. I have to admit that our families needed convincing a bit, we lived 500 miles apart when we met, but we both knew what we wanted so made it happen.