Originally posted by subsandyha

This is exactly what i feel, angelstar. I cannot submit to another indian or even an african or african american because I see them in the same boat as me...we were the slave races.
Well, that certainly makes me think about my attitudes -- from the perspective of a dominant.

My wife and I are different "races"; she's Mexican Indian, and I'm a Northern European Mutt (Scottish-Anglo-German). While I have sexual interest in a few "white women", I really have little desire to dominate or bed a blond, blue-eyed paragon of Western Beauty.

No, I prefer a duskier lass, preferably of Native American or Hispanic decent. My most intense sexual experiences have involved the domination of such women; in fact, I never felt very interested in engaging in BDSM activities with the "white women" I knew.

Now, does this make me some sort of bigot? Do I have some dark desire to dominate members of "subject" races? I've considered such, and still am not sure.

Of course, just because my lovely wife is a Mexican Indian doesn't mean she's a subjegated wimp, either. She has Apache, Yaqui, and Otomi blood, plus some Aztec and Maya genes in there. Outside the bedroom, she's a feisty little thing...

...which makes it all the more fun to get her tied up.