I am still new to a lot of what this lifestyle has to offer, but I have learnt that there is no one right way. There is just what feels right to you and doesn't hurt anyone in the process.

I have only so far had online experiences, and as I love the mental side of things, this has been wonderful. I am also meeting Tojo in a few months and that is something I am so looking forward too. I know this meeting will broaden my experiences even more and only strengthen our online relationship.

It has taken a long time for me to reach the point where I am today. It was not that I struggled with my submissive side, I just never really explored it until this year. Through Tojo, Warbaby and this forum, I feel at peace with who I am and who I want to be. I am having the most fun I have had in a long time too!