Well I just have to say that for me my Dom is my real life, whether we have contact online or not due to our long distance. Does work life get involved and in the way, absolutely. Does it change the way we feel towards each other, not at all. All relationships have to deal with work, school, family, and other life responsibilities getting in the way of a close relationship.
I go through stages where I just crave some meaningful contact together, but after being together for a couple years with our distance I am pretty used to these cycles. His schedule, my schedule, and everything else is just crazy. It ends up settling down shortly and we can both go back normal.
During these times I take as much as I can get. Whether it be a phone call where he whispers softly in my ear, or a quick text message between errands that make me smile.
I know it isn't any sort of advice on how to better get through it, I just am so used to the ups and downs now that I know everything will be fine whether I have two minutes with him or two hours. I am his no matter what I do in my life.
Tae'lyn





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