am i allowed to be here? hmm whats the worst that can happen? i get punished? *giggles*

not sure if this will help but here goes....

i consider myself a natural submissive because after i learned about bdsm, looking back at certain things in my life i realized that the submission was always there, even before i knew what it was called. it's like....i've always been bisexual. as a pre teen i had more posters of women decorating my walls than guys. as a little girl i thoroughly enjoyed getting captured and tied up in the war games me and my cousins played. to this day, every single job i've ever truly loved involved a immense amount of customer service.

so i think a natural Dom would be something along the same lines. someone who, even as a child, was a leader, someone to take action, give orders, expect to be followed.

although, i don't believe someone can be "taught" to be submissive or Dominant.