Just wanted to second Hime's suggestion about Cesar Millan's show. I happened across the Dog Whisperer once and then began regularly watching it. I always wanted to discuss the idea that a lot of what he says and does would work on people, too. But the couple of times I've broached that subject, I was met with the horrified expressions of my friends even though I did not say or even imply anything sexual about it.

I was suprised to see someone mention the show here. I think it's a great way to learn about the body language and energy of dominance. As a sub, I watch the show with fascination. I have been known to say, "I think I'm falling in love with Cesar Millan."