How it's going? What's good or bad? Are we supportive enough & not too overbearing?So far most of the people here are great, i'm very shy and it takes me a bit to get a feel for any group before i feel comfortable to open up and participate, but i do lurk alot and my courage is building. Some people find online frees them up, but for me it's quite the opposite. When you are talking face to face you can pick up on all those little social cues(body language facial exspression, tone of voice and what not), where as online you can't.

I often wonder what happens to the ones we answer questions from & wonder if they're OK.

Have you found that perfect Dom/me?My Dom and i were married for 13yrs before our relationship took this new twist, there was always some D/s and bondage in the bedroom, and i always longed for more but so much of it for me is wrapped up in trust. Even though he's aways proven himself trustworthy it has taken a long time for me to reach the point where i felt i could completely bare my soul to Him(i have trust issues). So to make a long story short, yes i do believe i have found the perfect Dom.

So yes i'm okay and you will probably see me start to post more and more.