I have always had submissive tendencies since I can remember. Seeing that I am from a small town, I was labled abnormal by most of my peers, when I started dating and in the throes of young passion, I requested some pretty lewd, erotic and strange things from my dates. I was quite the lonely camper from then on.
I then began to actually believe that I was a sexual deviant and that I really needed to control my bizarre urges. When I met my b/f, he once stated that being tied up was a pretty sick thing to do. I had to relunctantly agree.
It wasn't until just recently, I became so frustrated and bored with sex, even though I care deeply for my b/f, I started to cruise the internet.
Now I know that I am not deviant, and that there are others who share my passion and need for this lifestyle, and my b/f has even started to show some interest, although he is very slow to keep up with me.
I am so glad that I did find out that my abnormality is definately normal and that there are sites such as these where I can express myself and not be labeled as a weirdo.