Boundaries.

[dynamicbuttler]

I don't know... this is some confusing stuff, about boundries. I'm a male submissive, and reading your story, I was filled with a whole mix of emotions. If a dominant female had done that to me, I would feel ashamed, miserable and a little bit... turned on? Reading this, projecting myself into the same situation, I hate to admit I was a little arroused. I know how mean that's going to sound, but sometimes pushing boundries is a very gray and confusing area. Did he go too far? That depends. What kind of dom is he? What kind of sub are you? If he want too far or not is dependant on your view of it... And if you give him serious talks yet he still goes over the boundries, leave him.

PS: I've never been with a domme, but my girfriend who is vanilla handcuffed me and sucked me once... I have bondage issues, and so it resulted in me crying, cumming and feeling miserable. though a horrific experience, a good 15% of me liked it... It did hurt bad though and brought back some terrible memories. All in all, that is a boundry I would liked pushed again, but only by a skilled domme.