An important point I would like to add as cariad questioned me about my involvement with play and JD-did I think the two mixed?

During a scene (or play-whatever term you prefer) it is vital that each party is in control of themselves enough to have an appreciation of the other. So many times, accidents occur as one party was under the influence of some substance- drugs or alcohol and was consequently unable to perceive the danger.

And no. I don't mix a confused head with play.