SAM...hmmm. I kinda like that, thanks! I agree though about going too far. I may be mocking if someone is acting like a real jerk, but I generally try to be polite and considerate. Does being restrained fall under "masochism"? I like that but am a big baby when it comes to real pain (fantasy is different). Ah well, that's the fun of exploration! :=)Originally Posted by pagan switch