First of all Rape is wrong. Period, There is no discusion. However in this forum and I asume in others there has been discusions about rape as a fantasy. I beleive there was a thread "my demon rape" I think that was the title. Of course the author was not indorsing rape. I dont like these and did not for the most part participate in those discusions. I think it sends a mixxed msg.
For a Weak and Twisted mind it can be confusing. That is not an exscuse for his actions.

I think you should still go to the police for at least battery if not Rape. I think you should press charges. I know in the states there are laws to protect the victim. it does not always work. but they are there.