Something happened on the way to the top

[sweetplymate]

I never realized how much more the bottom can take once in the right mindset.

Stopping was always a letdown for me.

The falling asleep right after was the best. The sleep of the sub, way peaceful.

TJ

TJ...welcome to our world

this is an excellent description of why after all the tears, the begging our Mater to stop, and the hot burning skin where we were just beaten, we still walk away smiling bigger than ever.

~sp

[Mobius]

I thnk a better subject line for this thread should be:

What is good enough for the Gander is good for the Goose

[onlyforhim4ever]

Congrats TJ!

While I haven't had an experience like yours, nor can I give much advice (esp. since I know nothing about your D/s relationship), I wanted to mention to be mindful of the dynamic you have with her as your sub. I imagine some subs might be inclined not to be as obedient in their sub role after they are given freedom to top you so thoroughly. So I would say have fun with it, but make sure your subbie understands the rules of the game and that you expect no less submission from her when it is her turn to obey you.

[TaintedJohn]

I'm not my wife's Dom. We have a top/bottom relationship in the bedroom, with her more dominate outside of it.

TJ