G is for Guidance.

[Rhabbi]

This is an intersting post, and I am sorry I did not see it earlier.

From my perspective, I always seek guidance, even in the midst of a scene. I always have a safeword I can use so that my sub knows I need to get some input from her. This is a must as far as I am concerned.

[DrGeordie]

This is an intersting post, and I am sorry I did not see it earlier.

From my perspective, I always seek guidance, even in the midst of a scene. I always have a safeword I can use so that my sub knows I need to get some input from her. This is a must as far as I am concerned.

This is interesting. There are a million and one sources talking about subs having a safeword but I've not come across the idea of a Dom using a safeword before. Rhabbi would you mind expanding on this a little. How you apply it? When you feel you need to use it? What you are looking for when you do use it? Obviously the answers to this are going to be different for everyone but I'd still be interested to hear more