Quote Originally Posted by dynamicbuttler View Post
That's utter bullshit. I'm a hardcore submissive, but anyone with that myopic and simplistic a world view is only worth their weight in food. Is it implied that a person's taste in music, books, television, movies, art, philosophy, politics, current events, etc. are molded by their sexual clique? Or is it just implied that these things aren't worth talking about, because all you care about is sex, s&m, d/s, etc.?
Its not bullshit. Its what I want. I have a diverse taste in music, in art, in books TV, politics, and quite up to date on current events thank you very much. I don't associate myself with people outside of BDSM if I don't have to, because I don't want to socialize with them. I don't want them as friends, I don't want them coming over to my house, and having to worry if they will ask questions about the suspension equipment in my living room. I don't make friends with them, because I don't want to. I talk about things other than s/m d/s etc with my lifestyle friends, but the conversation easily turns to BDSM and then back to current events or music or whatever. The flow of conversation never strained by an off color comment. To say my way is narrow minded, is in its self a rather judgmental and narrow minded way to think. I didn't say how you choose to live was wrong, and that your telling me my way is wrong is fucking hypocritical if I ever saw it.