"I switch therefor I am," said Ruby, often and with a knowing smile on her face.

Just because I don't want something done to me, doesn't mean that my sub wants the same things. He has differnt limits and desires. Thank goodness. What a boring place it would be if we all wanted the same thing, all the time.

In the role of domming, pleasing our partner is also important. Whether partners agree to play SSC or RACK,
agreement is key.

Sometimes the rule is do unto others as they want done onto them.

and then fit that back into our playtime philosphy.