Quote Originally Posted by just_annie View Post
i have thought of many things i might say in response to these posts...

the one thing i keep coming back to is... no matter WHAT i say or HOW i say it it will be seen as "taking sides" and i will lose friendships out of it...

And honestly... THAT is what pisses me off and makes me the saddest... a catch 22 situation, no matter what is said....
These are my thoughts and said with a lot more coherency than I could manage. It's very difficult when such things as this happen because the ripples spread a long way. All I keep thinking is What a Mess! Which is hardly helpful and I am at a loss as to know what to do.

rach