If that post was long, mine must be a novel. Lol.
Yes, the whole respect thing is weird in the chat room.
Without mentioning names I will tell a situation in which I was personally involved.
Someone in the chat room, who considers themselve a Master, when sort of new (at least to me), made a comment to another Dom that I was laughing with and having a very good conversation about me. I believe it was along the lines of Dont give her a massage, she doesnt deserve it, shes just a sub. Yes everyone has different veiws, but I have seen this person whom I have know respect for at all make other derrogatory disrespectful comments to others, and has on SEVERAL occassions made them to me. I am not on to go tattle, so I didn't. But one particularly nasty comment got me, and I said something back, like I normally do, but I kept it going. I was pissed.
I was told to knock it off and to ignore him. In the chat room, while nothing was said to him. Gee, I wonder why? Because he is a Master? I should hope not. I hope that something was said to him in private. However, going back after that, he has still made more subtle disrespectful comments. Yes, i should report them. BUt when a mod... even the owner is in the room talking, and reading, what good would it do to report such a thing?
Makes one think.






