Well said cariad...
the key word is Need each other....ceegee is my slave but first before all else she is my strength and she is a beautiful woman because without her qualities and devotation to serve Me beyond all else I would not be able to display my Mastery in its best form.
As my ceegee grows so do I.
Most importantly we are both people which makes us equal. I worship and adore her as she does Me.
All relationships in our lifestyle are differant, in my case ceegee is also my partner and even though she is my slave, I respect her ability and her freedom of speech.
Mastery is not about telling one what to do its about listening and observing the needs of yours and acting accordingly by example. Because as she/he serves you in the best possible way in turn its a two way street. One sided BDSM has a short lifespan.
My advice to all those in our lifestyle is dont be afraid to ask your Master/Mistress questions and if you doubt there devotation to you talk about it. It might just surpise you. As a Dominant We sometimes forget to show how we feel sometimes...gentle reminders never hurt..smile
After All we are Human smiles.
I hope this has helped in some way.
Benz ( Proud Master to ceegee)..
PS. to my ceegee without your love, commitment and devotation, my life wouldnt be as perfect as it is. for that I thankyou my sweet kitten. smiles at her with my dark eyes.