Quote Originally Posted by UncleFester
Snip... So after 20 years, I figured out she's a sexual submissive. (not a 24/7 submissive. Pretty much sex only, I think)

So:

- I have taken control of how she dresses, and have her wearing skirts w/no panties, heels etc.
- I am demanding sex at all hours of the day, usually without regard to her pleasure.
- It's pretty clear that she likes all this, even though she won't tell me. I made her masturbate with a vibrator (she dislikes vibrators) until she came, and when she did, she had her first squirting orgasm. She seems to be enjoying her new trashy underwear too.

I'm naturally inclined to be nice to her, and find it difficult to invent sex-related activities within the bounds that seem to be there. So I throw it back to the group- got any ideas on how to push her around and humiliate her sexually without involving other people?

I think I'm going to try forced exhibitionism next. I sort of involves other people, but no physical contact.
Fester needing ideas to enhance sexual submission is such thorny problem

From your post you note you have taken control of her manor of dress. Have you thought of incorporating corsets? A great resource is Lisa. They have first hand accounts, pictures, historical and modern stories and resources. Adding the beauty, bondage and control can be very exciting and an ongoing everyday source of Ds. And it can add the aspect of humiliation and exhibitionism in that, worn in public, the image of an obviously corseted women is very much a turn on for both men and women.

Also you mentioned you have added the dimension of Domination to your sexual affairs. Have you thought of taking complete control through the use of a chastity belt? Altairboy has a great site with all the things you need to learn about the world of enforced chastity. The act of turning ones sexuality over to another is very personal and powerful. This can also be combined with the corset to create the ultimate in look but don't touch images.

Also since she seems to like bondage and you are controlling her wardrobe you can combine the two. Under long skirts and high necks you can hide all sorts of hobbles, hobble slips and skirts, corsets, neck corsets, collars and what not. Not to mention things that keep vibrators, plugs, dildos and the like safe and sound in her.

Lest we not forget the great resource of the BDSMlibrary, thousands of stories that can inspire the mind to wonderful possibilities. Keep in mind though that these are after fantasies. As such you need to filter all the ideas through the filters of reality and SSC.

And as always there are the great minds here. I cant wait to see what they come up with.