Hi Lucyboy, I read your main thread and like many other sensible people here I was angered , and not in a sweet submissive way, by what youve been put through. I felt all the closer because I am myself a trans submissive (not operated or enhanced, nor full-time femme, but actively in a female sub/slave role). Bondage and s/m is something that came before I accepted myself as a trans; but they have joined together and I'd agree that it's easier to express and bring out the (loosely put) "classical subbie/slave role" for a woman, or someone agreeing to embrace and take on the role and the style of a lady; but this "field division" is, in the end, conditioned by social factors and ways of thought I think, not by biology or genetic factors. Women as a class are not inherently submissive, but like it or loathe it, submission comes out differently in a M/f or F/f relation than with a female Domme vs a male sub.

Would like to reply more here, but sitting at a different-designed Arab keyboard (where a and q, m and n have changed places, to name just a few things) at a cybercafé in Paris I'll wait till I'm home again.

big hugs,

Louise