We scened tonight and....

[AndrewBlack]

Val - Did you perhaps feel more disappointed because you were stopped from doing something that you were enjoying a lot but assumed your sub would take easily? Or perhaps disappointed because you felt you couldn't gauge your sub well enough?

[ValKyrie]

Thank you, csr. It certainly helps me to make sense of things, never having been a male subbie ...

Andrew: The latter. I was disappointed because I didn't gauge him well enough. But, hopefully, this will be avoided in the future if we both remember our communication. We hadn't scened in a while, and that might have lead to some fuzziness in thought and action.

Thank you

[AndrewBlack]

Don't feel dissapointed, you can't read minds. I know exactly what you mean though, it does kind of snap you out of the moment a bit, but you sound like you got right back in there :smackbum: