I came to the conclusion that I was a switch only recently. Before that I always assumed that I was a dom only. My problem was that as a dom, I didn't have a problem with the physical aspect (spanking, etc), but I didn't fancy receiving it as a sub. However, I always felt from time to time to submit to a woman who is strong and controlling, who could be able to delve into my mind and go pass the simple ordering the sub around bit (I know I'm being vague, I have yet to experience a feeling like this in r/l, at the moment it's simply a fantasy).

So then I thought I was turning into a sub. But some members here are so increadibly subly, and after talking to them and hearing their experiences and fantasies I realised I wanted both, which then put me in the switch category.

So I guess I'm a natural switch, ever since learning about bdsm, I've always felt these conflicting emotions and thanks to this forum, I've figured out.