My first real life experience was actually a touch overwhelming and a whirl wind of sensations.

I had just moved to a country on my own, having never even traveled on my own. I also had my first BDSM scene (it didn't include much but a bit of tying up and flogging). It was also my first experience with another woman. It was all very scary and to think of it today, I wonder where I ever found the courage!

However, I am still with the Dominant (Over 5 years later) and we are even married (with a child) and I still keep in contact with the other woman. A lot has changed since then. My likes and dislikes have changed but that first experience will always be with me.

Now if you were to ask me the first time I ever went a BDSM meeting with demonstrations - well even the thought of that makes me want to faint!