Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
Ah, i see, i understand now. Yeah, subs desire to please can potentially run the risk of something like this occuring...particularly if there's any element of competition with other subs/slaves. i'm not saying there IS any competition, of course, but in her mind there may be. Submissives are submissives but they're still human (and women, in this case!).

All i could suggest is making sure she feels special in her own right, in her own submission and stuff that she does that makes her special..regardless of whether she takes 7 or 9 inches of dildo. i know this sounds very obvious and i'm sure you already do this, but from what you say it sounds likely that it's that which led to it.

Hope it works out and that you can both put the ordeal behind you and carry on forging a healthy Ds relationship.

sl
Are you saying that she had reverse dildo envy.