I take the ring out for sex. It can be taken out for up to 3 hours, so that's not the discomfort. It's more like he's too big (he's a nice size, but didn't have problems before). We are getting through it. I think if I make the moves first, it's easier to get wet and turned on. I gave him oral last nite, and he was in esctacy (yes it has been a few weeks). I really enjoyed that, so we are going to pull that into our sex lives more.

We have some stresses in our life, so I'm sure once they are gone things will be alright. I also think I have been dwelling and stressing on this issue too much, and that it will probably work out and be fine.

Thanks to everyone for your responses! Maybe my new erotic site will help in that too! (more info in the "general info" area)