I can't pinpoint an exact moment when I realized I was a switch, either. I tend to believe I'm a natural switch because it depends mostly on the partner I'm with. However, I lean far to the subbie side as I have never been satisfied in a relationship with what I perceived as a submissive male. My Dom and I have noticed a rather odd occurrence, though. Almost every time we have played a bit, i.e. spanking, I have an urge to whack him on the ass. *ggls* Needless to say, I only dare to give him a playful tap. He wondered aloud what the percentage was of subs who feel like spanking their Doms. I suppose very few indeed. *sigh* Sometimes I think he forgets I'm only 55% sub, not 100%. *weg*