Quote Originally Posted by Walace
but it seems no one around me know how to do things right... Giving orders would be not a choice, but a need!
Hee hee! That line made me smile, thanks Walace.

Joking aside though, i think it's quite an inciteful point, one things that most dominants share is that they like things done a certain way, at a certain time, however different and varied those wishes may be. Having said that, to be honest, so do i, and i often sigh softly or furrow my brow over an order, thinking, privately 'that would make sooooo much more sense done tomorrow' (or whatever)...but that's part of the challenge for my submissive side, to let it go and get on with it.

As for your point about teaching things....i tend to believe that both dom and sub constantly teach each other things, about many things, but especially about the practice of BDSM. i think the point lies in the feeling this induces...whilst i am always happy when my dom says he's learnt something from me...happy is about as far as it goes, probably in that i've pleased him or impressed him in some way... whereas he is VERY happy and takes pride in showing me and teaching me new things (be them about BDSM or not).

i'll shush now, thanks for your post, i liked it. Welcome to the forums.

sl