Well it didn't take long for him to send a reply. While I was here thanking you all for your support he was sending me a reply. I have decided to post it here so that you can all read what he had to say and hopefully, once again, give me your opinions. Btw, he sounds really bitter to me, and mostly because I am married; which he knew from Day 1! So here it is... honest opinions please!!........

Don't e-mail me with your bitter remarks that I AM
mean. I've never once been mean to you. Ever. As
for the remark that I didn't give the "part of myself
that truly mattered" well my dear...I've got new for
ya...it's because you're MARRIED ! I refused to
let myself get any closer than I already had to you.
When I felt INSIDE MYSELF that I was caring TOO MUCH
for a MARRIED woman I shut off a lot of the
communication. Period.

Oh...and FYI...slaves don't dis-own Masters...Masters
release slaves upon request and careful consideration.
Take that into your next relationship should you
choose to stay in some form of the "lifestyle".

From my perspective it's YOU who doesn't
understand...not me. I tried to see you...you had
reasons you couldn't.

As for me...and my world...I'm moving to another state in a
month. I've know for a little over a month. That has
left me not quite three months to find an office, sell
my house, find somewhere to live, and still continue
to try and make a living. I've been painting my house
every night after work for the last ten days. I'm
tired...I just took a break to check my mail tonight
and got this. I listed my house lastnight, and they
are already showing it tomorrow at noon...and it's not
ready. I have to go to another state next weekend for a survey
on a boat I have under contract...I'm driving so I can
pick up the buyer in another city and state. Then...the
following WEEK I'll be in another state working 12 hr. days on
my feet at a Boat Show. THEN I get home, and
the following weekend I have to deliver some
guy's boat...that puts me at the first of March.
At which point my house needs to be sold, and I have
to open an office, and find a place to live within'
ten days.

You're right...I've been soooooo selfish (my name)...I've
been nothing but mean and nasty to you...how did you
ever stand it?

You take care of yourself too my dear, and good luck
with your future.

Don't worry...I won't contact you again.

So there it is....a very painful read, eh?? Btw I deleted places and my real name with "another state" and "my name"! I will honor his privacy even though he isn't worth it because as lucy said...I don't want to lower myself to his level. And no... I did not reply!