To Let Go or Not??

[erotic_nibbles]

I'm pretty sure there is steam coming out of my ears here....but ok I'll try to calm down some and reply as you have asked me to LTP......

Don't e-mail me with your bitter remarks that I AM
mean.

He said it himself...."I AM mean"

I've got new for ya...it's because you're MARRIED ! I refused to let myself get any closer than I already had to you. When I felt INSIDE MYSELF that I was caring TOO MUCH for a MARRIED woman I shut off a lot of the communication. Period.

Bullshit....you never shut off communication it you want things to work....you expand it....idiot....and if he had a problem with you being married he should have stayed away in the first place....double, self-serving, idiot

Oh...and FYI...slaves don't dis-own Masters...Masters release slaves upon request and careful consideration.
Take that into your next relationship should you choose to stay in some form of the "lifestyle".

TG said it best...."Dumbass..."....but let me add that slaves/subs, whatever, you do have a choice and you can move on....sounds like he wanted you to think that all the choices were in his hands and none in yours...which would also explain why he didn't want you talking and learning with people on this site.....hhmmmpppffff.....I think it deserves caps this time...DUMBASS

From my perspective it's YOU who doesn't
understand...not me. I tried to see you...you had reasons you couldn't.

As for me...and my world...I'm moving to another state in a month. I've know for a little over a month. That has left me not quite three months to find an office, sell my house, find somewhere to live, and still continue to try and make a living. I've been painting my house every night after work for the last ten days. I'm tired...I just took a break to check my mail tonight and got this. I listed my house lastnight, and they are already showing it tomorrow at noon...and it's not ready. I have to go to another state next weekend for a survey on a boat I have under contract...I'm driving so I can
pick up the buyer in another city and state. Then...the following WEEK I'll be in another state working 12 hr. days on my feet at a Boat Show. THEN I get home, and the following weekend I have to deliver some guy's boat...that puts me at the first of March. At which point my house needs to be sold, and I have to open an office, and find a place to live within' ten days.".

Ok so what are you supposed to be a mind reader?....Mister I-cut-off-communication wants to dump all this on you as a last minute guilt trip?!...pppfffftttt......self-important, why-can't-you-read-my-fucking-mind, asshole!....also....he probably didn't tell you any of this because he knows you would realize that a man that can't manage his own life any better than that obviously cannot manage anything else.....especially the tender care and keeping of a submissive's heart

You're right...I've been soooooo selfish (my name)...I've been nothing but mean and nasty to you...how did you
ever stand it?.

Again....he said it himself....so he knows just how rotten he is inside...I know he is intending this to be sarcastic, but I look at it as a break through of honesty on his part

You take care of yourself too my dear, and good luck
with your future.

Don't worry...I won't contact you again.

Two words.....GOOD RIDDANCE

So there it is....a very painful read, eh?? Btw I deleted places and my real name with "another state" and "my name"! I will honor his privacy even though he isn't worth it because as lucy said...I don't want to lower myself to his level. And no... I did not reply!

I want to say too that I know that this is painful for you LTP.....connecting with someone and having to cut that connection, for whatever reason(s), is painful....but I believe you did the right thing...but I know it still hurts....so you know where I am if you want to talk with me and just spill out whatever needs to get out to cleanse it out of your system

And I want to add that this guy doesn't have issues...he has a subscription....so please keep that in mind when you (and I know you will, cause I would to) get to those points where you think, "Maybe it is was my fault".....It's not a fault to look out for your own desires and interests and try to find a way to express them.....and he should have been encouraging you to do just that, not trying to emotionally beat you down....emotionally impotant dickhead

Was that calm enough?

~~nibbles~~

[Pandora's Box]

Oh LTP I am so sorry. I've received shit like that too. Excuses excuses excuses.

He can come up with all the excuses in the world and try to blame you, but the thing is that it is entirely his fault. If he's been so damn busy, which I seriously doubt, he'd have found a way to communicate if he truly cared.

This is a rationalization on his part. It's him making excuses to himself. Not to you, but to himself. He's trying to find a way to foist it all on you. And it's NOT your fault. He's an asshole plain and simple.

He can have dreams of grandeur about domination, but in all reality he sounds like a little boy. A very mean little boy.

Heh, if it had all the mis-spellings it could have been written by the asshole I was with last year.

You so do NOT need this. He's the type of guy that'll carry you to hell in his handbasket. You are so wise to walk away now. Safegaurd yourself from this type of behavior.

Please realize that this is completely him. Not you. At all. He's the shmuck, he's the one that can't deal with bdsm or rejection.

"Good riddance to bad rubbish".

He never was what you wanted him to be. Or what he wants to be. He's delusional.

You deserve sooooooooooo much more than this. You're better off without him.

He's an asshole. Perhaps he can get together with my ex and make excuses as to why he's such a cocksucker. Heh.

Stay strong. You know you don't deserve this crap.

I'd kick his ass for you if I could. And I'd enjoy it too.

[acissej]

I'd kick his ass for you if I could. And I'd enjoy it too.

And I'd gladly help Pandora's Box kick his ass. :sword:

Good for you for getting rid of this inconsiderate, selfish prick. You deserve so much better.

[Magister]

Good for you!
I haven't heard such self-serving defensive drivel in ages.
File it and don't look back.
:bravo:

[Nightstriker]

I'd kick his ass for you if I could. And I'd enjoy it too.

And I'd gladly help Pandora's Box kick his ass. :sword:

Good for you for getting rid of this inconsiderate, selfish prick. You deserve so much better.

I have a boken that I still need to blood.

*Begins to contemplate evil things.*

[Ranai]

Hi,
just a suggestion for the ass-kicking faction.
With every sympathy, but this is a serious issue.
It might sound like fun, but I doubt that this sort of anger-cultivation talk really supports LTP.

The topic of this thread is 'To Let Go or Not?'
I'd say: Let go.

[smartass kitten]

My goodness. Geez.

I'm so sorry you had to go through that with that piece of asswipe.
*hugs LTP*

Seems like quite a few gals on here have had some serious toiletpaper dudes in your lives.

just.say.no.to.asswipes.

And just cuz this is my 100th post on this forum [took me long 'nuff], I will say publicly that I will gladly join Pandy and beat him over the head with a very hard stick.

[spirit]

i'm so glad you got out of the relationship when you did. You deserve much better than this guy had to offer you. i won't expand further as everyone has had excellent comments...just wanted to let you know that i'm glad it worked out for you.

hugs...

spirit