To Let Go or Not??

[acissej]

I'd kick his ass for you if I could. And I'd enjoy it too.

And I'd gladly help Pandora's Box kick his ass. :sword:

Good for you for getting rid of this inconsiderate, selfish prick. You deserve so much better.

[Magister]

Good for you!
I haven't heard such self-serving defensive drivel in ages.
File it and don't look back.
:bravo:

[Nightstriker]

I'd kick his ass for you if I could. And I'd enjoy it too.

And I'd gladly help Pandora's Box kick his ass. :sword:

Good for you for getting rid of this inconsiderate, selfish prick. You deserve so much better.

I have a boken that I still need to blood.

*Begins to contemplate evil things.*

[Ranai]

Hi,
just a suggestion for the ass-kicking faction.
With every sympathy, but this is a serious issue.
It might sound like fun, but I doubt that this sort of anger-cultivation talk really supports LTP.

The topic of this thread is 'To Let Go or Not?'
I'd say: Let go.

[smartass kitten]

My goodness. Geez.

I'm so sorry you had to go through that with that piece of asswipe.
*hugs LTP*

Seems like quite a few gals on here have had some serious toiletpaper dudes in your lives.

just.say.no.to.asswipes.

And just cuz this is my 100th post on this forum [took me long 'nuff], I will say publicly that I will gladly join Pandy and beat him over the head with a very hard stick.

[spirit]

i'm so glad you got out of the relationship when you did. You deserve much better than this guy had to offer you. i won't expand further as everyone has had excellent comments...just wanted to let you know that i'm glad it worked out for you.

hugs...

spirit

[e.b.]

Hey sweetie,

First, I owe you an apology for not getting to this thread WAY sooner than now. School has been crazy, but I still think it's important to put friends first and I haven't done as well as I should have with that, so I'm sorry, love. I've been thinking about you though...

At this point, let me just add a big "what they said". You are a lovely, intelligent, thoughtful woman who will make an excellent sub, if you so choose, for a dom somewhere that actually deserves you. Congrats on breaking it off for good...I know how tough that can be. Thanks also for sharing with us; it's great having you here!!

BTW, it sounds like you already know much, much more about how bdsm relationships (and relationships in general) are supposed to work than he probably ever will, so please, please don't let his clinging, obnoxious behavior and replies make you doubt yourself. He has some nerve trying to tell you how bdsm "works" considering his lack of respect and inability to take responsibility for his own behavior. You are amazing and I'm so glad you're standing up for yourself.

I hope things are going as well as possible for you with school and life. Hopefully we can find time to meet for lunch again before too long.

eb

[learningtopleez]

Well, it has been just over a week since I sent the letter and received the reply. I have not received anything further from him, and I'm quite sure I won't, due to his pride. Or it could have been what he was waiting for....a reason to be rid of me. Although, I guess for him this all came out of nowhere since he actually felt he was treating me well.

It has indeed been a very rough week for me. As many of you warned me, I do miss him, and it does still hurt. I know in my head I did the right thing, but in my heart, I have done nothing but question myself. He made me a CD once, and every time I hear certain songs on it, I miss him even more. Never told y'all that did I? So yeah, he could be nice to me, but I needed more than he was willing to give. So that leaves me where I am now....listening to songs that remind me of him, remembering his touch (whether gentle or firm), the times we laughed over something silly, his cat...yep....I had even fallen for his damn cat! This is why I don't believe in true love, at least not for me. I know risks have to be taken in order for a relationship to begin and to flourish. But every time I take those risks, I seem to get hurt. I wonder why it is that the people we fall in love with don't feel the same? Or why people that fall in love with us, we don't feel that connection with? Is it always this hard?? And confusing?? I am sure this could start a whole new thread, so I'll just go into my thank you's from the friends who responded last. Forgive me for taking so long to thank you, but I've been so busy wallowing in self pity!

Valkyrie Thank you so much for the well wishes! I like the way you think! Relationships should be symbiotic and thank you for reminding me.

TG "Dumbass!" LOL! Thank you Sir! I needed that!

Nightstriker Thank you Sir for thinking I am above that! And for wanting to kick his ass!

nibbles What can I say sug?? Your post had me ROFLMAO! You nailed it! And you put some things in perspective for me! And the subscription thing...OMG...I'm still laughing over that one! Thanks sug for being my friend and for helping me out! Don't worry, I'll be bugging you soon enough, to either bitch or cry on a shoulder!! Thanks hun!

Pandora Thanks again Pandy for your continued support throughout this whole thing! You are my inspiration! Thanks hun!

Slavelucy LMAO at Wanker!! Thanks for being here for me during such a difficult time! Even though I have said I don't think true love exists for me; you and Wontworry give me hope! Thanks hun!

Ranai You wished me a light heart...so very sweet and kind of you! Thank you for that and for worrying that the kick ass faction would upset me! (They didn't though!) It shows how thoughtful you are! I appreciate you and your kindness!

acissej Thanks for taking the time to respond to my thread! I appreciate it! And I may take you and the others up on the ass kicking

Magister Filed Sir! Still working on not looking back though.

smartasskitten Thanks for the hugs hun!! I need all I can get! I've missed seeing you around! I will remember the J.S.N.T.A.W (just say no to ass wipes) for future reference!

spirit Thanks sweetie for being here for me! I appreciate you and your kindness and am so happy to count you among my friends!

e.b. What can I say love...I am a mess! But seeing your post helped alot! Maybe by spring break, we can both take a break and have lunch again!! I would love it!! I've missed ya!