my journey

[tessa]

Wow.

I always read the last couple of posts of this thread, but never from the beginning. So today, I spent a good half hour reading from the first post, and all I can say is wow.

Well, thanks for taking the time, NK. Real nice of you to do so.

Tessa, congrats on your willing submission to your husband. All I can say about the hard times in life is that without them, how would you know about the good times then? I find it awesome reading your thoughts and experiences.

I really deserve no congrats as I can make it all so very complicated and difficult. But it's true what you said- without the bad, you don't know the good.

And in a way, this thread has taught me so much about a bdsm relationship, and for that, thank you, and to all others who contributed their experiences and thoughts as well.

I'm glad you think you've learned something. Care to share it with me as I'm still clueless?

May you in the distant future look back with complete happiness.

That is beautifully said. My sincere appreciation. ~hugs the lion~

tessa

[nk_lion]

Well, thanks for taking the time, NK. Real nice of you to do so.


I really deserve no congrats as I can make it all so very complicated and difficult. But it's true what you said- without the bad, you don't know the good.


I'm glad you think you've learned something. Care to share it with me as I'm still clueless?


That is beautifully said. My sincere appreciation. ~hugs the lion~

tessa

Well, everyone's experience in a bdsm relationship is unique, and most here are already in one. Your story described the awkard beginnings, slow realizations and the excitment of exploration with. While I still have to find Mrs. Nk, I look at this thread as an inspiration about a normal couple going through an adventure together. Your husband is a lucky man, plus that Mustang is wickedly awesome.

So what did I learn? I learned that having a bdsm based relation is not easy, yet not hard if both participants are willing to work for it, from what you have written, and most importantly I learned that you are wildly happy, and that your marraige is a lot richer after starting this journey together.

I notice you're working on that accepting-a-compliment phobia you have.

~big squishy boobie hugs again, 'cause it feels so good~

Methinks you have a compliment phobia also. Everyone here reads your thread and gains something from it, while you may think you are simply sharing you thoughts and feelings, to a reader (at least to me) you are doing a lot more. So thank you, and you better accept it or I'll tell your husband to deny you orgasms for a week and say its a part of a supermod initiation.