Maybe not on a large scale.

However, as an individual a young man is free to make a personal choice: whether he wants short-lived status illusion based on a lie that causes suffering, or whether he would like a chance to win the esteem of people of either sex with a smattering of intelligence, who don't consider honesty a weakness. Honesty is a sign of courage.

There is no such thing as performing properly. Sex does not follow a fixed recipe. It's about experimenting and openness for surprise.