do you just know

[midnightsky]

Ive gotten asked if I was a domme several times before. Im never quite sure how to respond since a.) Im a switch and only domme (ususally) with guys and b.) a couple of the people have been under 18 who asked me this- and thats not a convo i want to have with minors!

[maia]

I've spotted both submissives and dominants quite a few times... being a lesbian, I think developing 'gaydar' first helps you to pick up on things like that. I've asked other submissives whether I'm right, but I've never had the guts to ask a Domme - after reaading this, I might though!

[Duetta]

I submitted a very brief profile on a Danish, vanilla chatforum... Didn't say much about me but I did attach a picture..

One evening I was there a guy asked me outright if I was a "tøs" - Danish word for sub/slut.. Hmm something like that..
Since I hadn't made even the slightest hint to this in my profile and hadn't mentioned it to anyone on this particular site I was amazed...
He said he could see it in my eyes! I've been looking at this photo several times since and frankly I can't see it
Maybe it just takes a Dom (which he was) to spot them...

duetta