Sorry to hear that things went so badly for you Twilight. The truth is most relationships (D/s or not) do not work out and that is especially true with online ones. A lot of people do not take them seriously and unfortunately having your partner suddenly disappear on you is all to common, it has certainly happened to me.

There are genuinely good people online, but it will likely take a while to meet one. The best advice I can give is keep trying, go slow, and don’t take it personally if the other person flakes on you. It is a reflection on them not on you.

Best wishes in whatever you do.